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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Friday, April 21, 2023
Lovingly remembering Karen on this 9th anniversary of her death.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Friday, December 23, 2022
Lovingly remembering Karen this holiday season.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 19, 2022
Lovingly remembering Karen on this eve of the 8th anniversary of her death.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Friday, December 24, 2021
Lovingly remembering Karen on this Christmas Eve. Oh how she loved this time of year! She cherished time with family at Christmas and celebrating Mom's birthday on the 26th.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Sunday, October 17, 2021
Lovingly remembering Karen on her birthday today.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 20, 2021
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Lovingly remembering Karen on this eve of the 7th anniversary of her death. COVID pandemic is still going on and I have framed some of the pictures I have come across of her as I have been sorting through photos. I will never forget getting the call of her death while I was in Boston. Valerie was running in the Boston Marathon that day. I miss her and her strong personality. I remain thankful to God for sharing her with us for as long as He did, for her health was poor for a long time.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Thursday, December 24, 2020
Lovingly remembering Karen on this Christmas Eve. In her adult years she loved coming up to Pennsylvania to visit Mom and Dad for the holidays, including Mom's birthday on the 26th. Her car was packed with suitcase, gifts and her kitty cats. I enjoyed her visits and am thankful for the memories.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Thursday, November 26, 2020
Lovingly remembering Karen on this Thanksgiving Day. So thankful to God for giving her to me as a sister!!!!
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Saturday, October 17, 2020
Lovingly remembering Karen on her birthday.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2020
April 23, 2020
Two days ago marked the 6th anniversary of Karen's death. I have been thinking of her a lot, for during this coronavirus I have had time to purge closets. In doing so, I have come across tons of pictures of Karen. Most of the pictures were taken at happy family gatherings. I cherish these photos and the fond memories.
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Virginia C. posted a condolence
Friday, April 17, 2020
Dear Aunt Karen,
I love you. I ache. I miss you. I grieve. I still miss Tetley too. She was "Gentle and Thick". (You loved my description of her when I was a kid.) I have my own cat now who is "Gentle and Thick". You're always in my heart and on my mind. I wish I could call you or go visit you because I have so many things I'd like to tell you. I cherish every memory I have of you, and carry many lessons your have taught me into my daily life. I can hear you singing songs to me as a little girl. "Que Sera, Sera", "Hail to the Redskins", and "Yummy yummy yummy I've got love in my tummy". Sometimes waves of grief hit me like a ton of bricks, but I don't despair because I'm reminded how blessed I am to love you.
Love, Virginia
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 24, 2019
December 24, 2019
Lovingly remembering Karen on this Christmas Eve. She so loved traveling to Mom and Dad's for the holidays ( with a carload of cats!) Setting up the luminaries on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and celebrating Mom's birthday on the 26th made for a wonderful trip. She'd assist Dad in making the traditional spaghetti and meatballs for Mom's birthday dinner. She would nibble on some of the uncooked meatball mixture and gross us out! I miss Karen, but am thankful for fond memories and for having her as my sister.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 16, 2019
October 16, 2019
Thinking of Karen on the eve of her birthday. We both looked forward to the fall season and watching the Redskins and discussing how they were doing. She would not be happy with the Redskins this season, losing their first 5 games and firing the coach! I think of Karen often and with Thanksgiving and Christmas approaching, I will be thinking of her a lot and remembering how much she enjoyed these family occasions. In August I visited Virginia and had the opportunity to visit her grave site. I certainly miss her and hope she has a wonderful birthday celebration in Heaven!
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Saturday, April 20, 2019
April 20, 2019
Thinking of Karen this Spring season. Chris posted a picture on Facebook recently of a beautiful tree in full bloom that Karen loved.The Boston Marathon was last week. That race will always remind me of receiving a call that Karen had died, while I was in Boston cheering on Valerie as she ran in it.Tomorrow marks the anniversary of Karen's death, it is also Easter Sunday. As I count my blessings this Easter season, I will cherish memories of Karen, and thank God for giving me her as a sister for as long as He did.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Sunday, December 23, 2018
Remembering Karen this holiday season with heartfelt love and memories.She so loved coming up to Pennsylvania for Christmas and Mom's birthday. She loved her parents very much. Now, to be honest, a visit from Karen usually meant there would be some bickering in the mix, for she was quite strong willed! As aggravating as that was at the time, it makes me smile now as I reflect upon Karen. She was a hard worker and devoted to her family and kitty cats. I'll be thinking of her this Christmas. I am thankful for having her for a sister!
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 21, 2018
Remembering how much Karen loved Thanksgiving. She cherished spending time with family. I thank God for giving me her as a sister.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 16, 2018
October 16, 2018
I think of Karen a lot this time of year. Tomorrow would have been her birthday. I would always give her a birthday call. Our conversation would include "Redskins" talk, how we were doing, what my kids and grandkids were up to, what her cats were up to, and plans for the upcoming holidays.I miss those conversations.I will be thinking of her tomorrow and will continue to thank God for allowing us to have so many of these sisterly conversations.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Monday, April 16, 2018
Today was the Boston Marathon. Four years ago I was at the Boston Marathon cheering on my daughter, Valerie, who was running in it. While on the streets of Boston, I received a call I will never forget....I fell to my knees with news that Karen had died. The fourth anniversary of Karen's death is April 21, however the Boston Marathon will always remind me of receiving that call. This Saturday April 21, I will certainly be thinking of Karen. She is gone, but not forgotten.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Saturday, December 23, 2017
December 23, 2017
Lovingly thinking of Karen this holiday season. She looked forward to driving up to Pennsylvania with her kitty cats to spend the holidays with Mom and Dad at Valley Forge. I remember helping her set up and decorate her tree at her apartment. We were Redskin buddies. She would be disappointed in the Skins this year....they stunk! Family was precious to Karen. I'd like to think she will be celebrating Christmas with a heavenly feast, with Mom and Dad by her side and God at the head of the banquet table!
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 17, 2017
October 17, 2017
Lovingly remembering Karen today, her birthday. For so many years I called her to wish her a happy birthday. I miss that. With it being NFL season, we always got to talking about the Redskins. I miss talking to my Redskin buddy. Family was very important to Karen. I loved her. I miss her.
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Joan Crawley posted a condolence
Monday, May 22, 2017
Miss you, dear sister. It always makes me happy to know you no longer suffer here on this earth. Love you K-ken, Aumpy Karen, Keeeeerin, Campbell's soup girl.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Friday, April 21, 2017
April 21, 2017
Karen was very much on my mind today, on this third anniversary of her death. God chose to have her only have 57 years with us. She certainly loved her family during those years. Though I miss her, I believe she is quite content in Heaven, no pain or suffering. She is with God and Mom and Dad.....pure joy, I imagine.
Pat Profili
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Saturday, December 24, 2016
Lovingly remembering Karen this Christmas season. She looked forward to traveling to Pennsylvania to visit Mom and Dad for Christmas and Mom's birthday. During this time of gift giving, I thank God for his gift (truly one of a kind!) of my sister, Karen.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 23, 2016
On this Thanksgiving Eve, I thank God for having Karen as a sister.Thanksgiving, I believe, was one of her favorite holidays, for it gave her the opportunity to spend time with family, especially Mom and Dad.Tomorrow the Redskins play the Cowboys. I'll be the only one cheering for the Skins, so I plan to wear a Redskin sweatshirt and socks (that were Karen's).This way, I'll feel like a part of Karen and I will be cheering for a Redskin victory!
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Christine Kittilstad posted a condolence
Monday, October 17, 2016
My sister's life gave me purpose, one I did not fully grasp until she was gone.
She was both sweet and stubborn and kept fighting until the end.
I miss her.
I am grateful that we were able to share being crazy cat ladies together-- no one embraced the depths of my silliness (and that of our furry friends) more fully than Karen.
I love you.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Sunday, October 16, 2016
Tomorrow is Karen's birthday. On this birthday eve, she is very much on my mind. It is NFL season, and oh, how she loved the Redskins! Being a Redskin fan myself, she would call me during games to discuss a play or bad call, and over the phone we'd watch part of the game together.On game days when I wear a Redskin sweatshirt or Redskin socks that once belonged to her, I feel like a little part of Karen is with me as I cheer on our "Skins".I miss her, but am glad for memories such as this, that allows her to live on in my heart.
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patricia profili posted a condolence
Thursday, April 21, 2016
Remembering Karen on this 2 year anniversary of her death. She certainly had a strong, forceful and stubborn personality! She also had a softer side, very much expressed in her devotion and affection towards her kitty cats and in her love for family, especially Mom and Dad. I miss her and cherish the memories of her.
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Christine Kittilstad posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 20, 2016
I will always love you.
If given the chance, there are so many things I would do differently.
I would hug you...
I would listen.
I would know how short a time we are given and put my anger aside.
We had many good times…
I wish we'd had more.
And even if I wasn't so great at showing it, I always loved you.
I will always love you.
I pray that this day you are in Heaven with God, united with Mom & Dad too.
Pray for me.
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patricia profili posted a condolence
Saturday, March 26, 2016
Lovingly thinking of Karen this Easter weekend.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Saturday, December 26, 2015
Thinking of Karen this holiday season. I have fond memories of phone conversations with her. I cherish the memories of Christmas Day and celebrating Mom's birthday on Dec.26 through the years.
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Chris Kittilstad posted a condolence
Friday, October 30, 2015
You always knew how intense it was for me when I was writing.
You left me to my own.
What you might not have known was that I couldn't wait to finish my work and run out to the living room to tell you I was done!
Why? Because each time I did, you said, "That's AWESOME Chris!"
I will never forget that.
And y'know Karen, despite all our troubles, it was awesome because it meant I could sit down and spend time with you. We'd watch TV--be it HGTV, a cooking show, Chuck or Burn Notice.
I love and miss you so much. xoxo
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Saturday, October 17, 2015
Today is the anniversary of what would have been another birthday of Karen's.. So many times I would call her and we would discuss the Redskins and what she was having for her birthday dinner.Perhaps she will have a birthday feast in Heaven today, with Mom and Dad by her side. I miss Karen, and I think of her often, especially on days like today.
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Chris posted a condolence
Saturday, June 13, 2015
One of Karen's longstanding final requests was that she be buried with her kitty, Tetley. When making her final arrangements, I handed the lovely cremation box to the funeral director as we were leaving.
Lo and behold, over a year later we received a call from the funeral director, explaining that Miss Tetley's remains had been found at the funeral home! To his credit, the director had made arrangements with the cemetery for the kitty cat's ashes to be interred at Karen's gravesite.
So now, her (our) beloved Tetley's earthly remains are where they belong, though I am sure she crossed the Rainbow Bridge with Karen a long time ago. RIP little "Tootley."
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Monday, April 20, 2015
Today is the eve of the one year anniversary of Karen's death. Today was the Boston Marathon and boy did it bring back a lot of memories from one year ago today. I was at the Marathon, for Valerie was running in it. While there, I received word that Karen had died.I called Karen from Boston on Easter Sunday and am grateful for the nice conversation we had. She wished Valerie well for the race the following day. I certainly did not know that would be the last time I spoke with her, for she died the next day. I'll be thinking a lot of Karen tomorrow...my sister, friend and Redskin buddy. I'm relieved she is no longer suffering and is with the Lord. I can only imagine her joy being in Heaven with Mom and Dad. I miss her.....it's hard to believe it has been one year....
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Christine Kittilstad posted a condolence
Monday, April 20, 2015
One year since I last saw you. Glad it was a happy day for both of us. Love you....chris
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Chris Kittilstad posted a condolence
Sunday, April 5, 2015
Last Easter we had such a nice day together. You had your wonderful surf & turf lunch, we had a good stroll around outside--it was such a pretty day. I am sorry I was wearing my stupid heels and couldn't walk around longer with you! The next morning you passed away before I could get to you, but I will always remember that last day. I love you so much, Karen. I know you must now know I miss you too--though when we were "roommates", it was probably something you would not have ever believed! All my love, chris p.s. if anyone makes you work today, tell them it is Easter Monday, which is a holiday!
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Christine posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 20, 2015
So much was happening a year ago. I know it wasn't easy for you. I hope I helped, I wish I had done more. I am sorry that you felt I took control of things away from you but I didn't know what else to do; you were struggling so much of the time, I thought I was doing what was best. I am so glad I finally got you to FNC where you met Dottie and Stan. What a joy they were to both of us. I am sorry you had to leave there and I am sorry you never got to come home. We love you and miss you so much.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Thursday, December 25, 2014
Lovingly thinking of Karen on this first Christmas without her. I can only imagine the joy she is experiencing celebrating her first Christmas in Heaven with Jesus, Mom and Dad!
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Thursday, November 27, 2014
This is the first Thanksgiving without Karen. I have many memories of previous Thanksgivings with her that I hold dear to my heart. I thank God for her. Perhaps she will be enjoying a heavenly feast wih Him, Dad and Mom today!
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Friday, October 17, 2014
October 17, 2014
Today marks what would have been Karen's 57th birthday. I miss her very much and think of her often. I wore her watch and slacks as symbols of her presence at Dad's service at Arlington National Cemetery on October 9.
I wonder if birthdays are celebrated in Heaven. I'm imagining a heavenly feast with Jesus at the head of the table and Mom and Dad on either side of Karen. Jesus giving a God inspired toast and a chorus of angels singing Happy Birthday as Karen opens gifts of love, wrapped with bows of peace and joy. This is the first birthday since Karen died. There will more "firsts" in the upcoming months and I will be thinking of her on these occasions. Today would have been her birthday. I wonder if birthdays are celebrated in Heaven.....
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Christine Kittilstad posted a condolence
Friday, October 17, 2014
Karen, Today would have been your 57th! I miss you, I love you. So do Angel and Squirt who only pretend to love me...and of course Bloobie misses his favorite babysitter. Annie, your birthday buddy and Lisa are thinking of you today too! Happy Birthday!
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Christine posted a condolence
Saturday, September 27, 2014
Karen,
I expected that as time passed, I would feel better.
I don't know that "better" is a word that will ever describe how I feel.
Everybody says that now all is forgiven.
I hope so.
I miss you so much and I will love you forever.
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Patricia posted a condolence
Saturday, September 20, 2014
It was 5 months ago today that I had my last conversation with Karen. I called her from Boston on Easter Sunday. We had a nice conversation, for which I am so grateful. The following day, Easter Monday, I received word that she had died. Three weeks later, Dad died. Today marks the 10th anniversary of Mom passing away. Karen is in the good hands of our Lord and in the company of Mom and Dad. I rest assured that she is truly in peace.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Saturday, June 21, 2014
It's hard to believe it has been 2 months since Karen died. A heaviness still weighs down my heart. She was strong and fought throughout her many health issues. I miss her.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Sunday, June 15, 2014
It's Father's Day, the first one without Dad. Though he is not with me to celebrate as we have done for so many years, I'd like to think Karen is celebrating big time with Dad today! She loved him so much and due to her health was not able to come to Pennsylvania to visit on such occasions as often as she would have liked. Perhaps she is making up for lost time and is enjoying her Dad today.....this special day...Father's Day.
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Sunday, June 1, 2014
On Easter Monday, April 21, Karen joined Mom in Heaven. On May 18, Dad joined them. I can only imagine the joy Karen is experiencing being reunited with Mom and Dad!
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Christine posted a condolence
Monday, May 12, 2014
I probably wasn't even born yet when this adorable photo was taken--the one of Karen with the two buns on the sides of her head. But in the days since Karen died, it is this photo i keep coming back to. Every time Iook at it, I smile (okay, sometimes I cry a little too). Not only do I see both my parents in her, but now I know why they kept her! Just kidding. But seriously, what a cutie-pie!
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Patricia Profili posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 7, 2014
May 7, 2014
My last conversation with Karen was on April 20, Easter Sunday. I was up in the Boston area for Easter, as well as for a daughter running in the Boston Marathon on Easter Monday. I called each of my siblings and my Dad. I had a nice conversation with Karen. She sounded good. I asked her if a special meal was being prepared at the facility because it was Easter. She immediately raved about a surf and turf meal that she thoroughly enjoyed. She asked about Dad, who was having his own issues in a nursing home. She told me to wish Valerie good luck in the marathon. It was at the Boston Marathon the next day that I received word that Karen had died.
I came home on Tuesday and immediately began making two posters for Karen's funeral. I spent a couple of tear-filled late nights assembling them.Smiles broke the tears from time to time as I uncovered photos that I hadn't seen in years.
On Thursday I headed for Virginia. It's a trip I've made numerous times over the years. This time, there was no Karen calling me enroute to see how close I was. There was no Karen to greet me as I entered the apartment. Chris and her cat, and Karen's two cats were there. Chris and I spent that evening laughing and crying reminiscing and sharing stories and events that involved Karen.
The visitation and mass on Friday morning were truly wnoderful ways to celebrate Karen's life. Friends, family, former colleagues and even little 7 month old Ava Blake were there. Ava, a niece Karen had so wanted to meet and had planned to meet over the Christmas holidays, was very well behaved at her Aunt Karen's funeral. The weather held out at the cemetery and many joined together afterward for a reception and sharing of fond memories.
Karen was always fiesty in nature. I believe that strong personality kept her going through the years and especiially these last few months when her health issues became so complex. Though she is gone, I'm thankful to God for sharing her with us. She suffered so much. I can only imagine the joy she is experiencing now, being with Him, Mom, family and friends. I will try to remember this when I feel sad that she is no longer here.
Thank you to all who supported Karen through the years. Thanks, too, for all the support to our family over the past several difficult months. It meant a lot.
Patricia Profili
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Lyle Werner posted a condolence
Monday, May 5, 2014
April 24, 2014 God danced the day you were born Karen. What a dear person you were Kittils, much love to your family. You have gone home where there is no pain into the arms of our Lord. God keep and bless you and your family. Lots of love, Lyle ~ Lyle Werner, Murrells Inlet, South Carolina
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Mary Radtke-Baur posted a condolence
Monday, May 5, 2014
April 25, 2014 We were deeply saddened to hear the news of Karen's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of sorrow. May you find comfort and peace in loving memories of Karen. Karen will remain in our hearts forever. God Bless. ~ Mary Radtke-Baur and Family, Wausau, Wisconsin
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Susan Sonley posted a condolence
Friday, April 25, 2014
Oh Karen! You were such a wonderful friend, always honest and sage, always caring and thoughtful, and always focused and direct. I respected the heck out of you for it. You never backed down when you knew you were right but you always took the time to consider the other point of view and if warranted, make adjustments and I loved you for that, too, amongst your many other wonderful traits. You always had a ready grin for my dumb jokes and an ear for my stories about my nephews, making me feel that you loved them as much as I did. I loved spending time visiting with you - remember that evening when you asked me "Susan, why are you here on a Friday night?" I was there because I wanted to visit with you and we diid. And other times when I quietly slipped in and sat with you while you dozed, and you'd open an eye and say hello and go back to sleep, i just wanted you to know you weren't alone, because you really never were. You would have been so amazed today to see how many brokers - friends all - showed up to honor you today. wish you were physically with us to know how loved and respected you were (are) but I know you were with us today in spirit and likely saw it all anyway. Best of all, you are out of pain now and for that, for you, I am glad... You will be missed by many and I will miss you. Hugs and love to you in Heaven, girlfriend. Go Redskins; I'll be tslking to you up there this season in hopes that we have a winning year - and you better help if you can! :) More love, Susan and ps maybe you'll get used to using a Kindle in Heaven. i'll work on God to make that happen.
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Don and Nancy Brady posted a condolence
Friday, April 25, 2014
I am truly saddened to hear of the loss of Karen, a good friend from years ago. I can only imagine the sorrow your family is feeling today.
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Thursday, April 24, 2014
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Karen, You Are A Very Special Lady From a Very Special Family!!
My wife,Judy, and I first met Karen and her family 50 years ago, when she was 7 years old, at Edwards Air Force Base, CA. Karen, her siblings, Mother and Father have had a very positive impact on our lives for these past 50 years. Much has happened but we have remained close. I know you are now at peace, without pain, with your Mother, Judy and God. Rest in Peace.
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Sandy Nunnally posted a condolence
Thursday, April 24, 2014
Sandy Nunnally purchased flowers (Deepest Sympathy Arrangement)
Our thoughts are with you, Sandy and Rick Nunnally
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chuck coley posted a condolence
Thursday, April 24, 2014
A good while back I had a meal with Karen over in Tysons.She was working at a realtor and I was visiting my parents in Bowie.She was friendly,vivacious and a great listener.I enjoyed her company very much.
I will miss her and I am proud Karen was my cousin.
God bless her
Chuck Coley(cousin-Cincinnati,OH)
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Elizabeth Bennis posted a condolence
Thursday, April 24, 2014
Kittils...words can not express my sadness when I heard of your passing. My time at G&E was memorable thanks to your friendship, guidance, mentoring and even tough love. You have made such an impact on all of us former G&E girls and even though you are gone, I will forever hold onto and cherish those good memories. You will be missed!
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Moggie Mackubin posted a condolence
Thursday, April 24, 2014
Hello Kittilstads' I am Moggie, Jenny Brunts' sister, I don't know you all except for the stories Jenny has told me over the years. I am very sorry for your loss and I pray you will receive comfort from our Lord over the next few months as your loved one Karen is missed. Moggie Mackubin
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Carol Petr Greenough posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
Most of my Karen stories are from Madison days. Those I can remember are best left unwritten! Yes, you can have too much fun, and it was like that with Karen. Over the past few years, I was able to enjoy numerous breakfasts out with Karen, Sandy, and Chris. Through all her struggles, she never gave up hope and her smile and her giggle never wavered. I enjoyed those meals and the time spent easily with old friends. I am happy to carry them as memories. I will miss you, my friend.
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Christine Kittilstad posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
To friends and family who visit here, I want to assure you that despite Karen's struggle, particularly over the past four months, her last week was really quite lovely. She was motivated and was in pretty good spirits (despite the deplorable food at the rehab)!
On the subject of food, I can tell you a funny story...
Karen really did not look forward to the food at the final rehab she lived in. I had resorted to bringing in "back up" meals in case she really could not eat--or for when the rumored "always available" alternate meals did not materialize.
Then came Easter Sunday, a day for miracles....
Upon entering Karen's room, I did not receive a hello, but instead a full out rave review of lunch: Surf and Turf! Somehow, the kitchen had whipped up a bona fide gourmet lunch of (in Karen's words) "the most puffy, delicious battered shrimp and sliced steak...really good steak! And a baked potato! It was delicious!"
Karen repeated this story throughout the day and even made a point of stopping at the nurses' station to see if the staff had been able to partake of this same meal. She was appalled that they had not been served it as well, but made sure they knew how much SHE enjoyed it!
I tell this story to illustrate the importance of the little things that matter when people are sick. Things none of us should take for granted, but probably do. Now, mind you, dinner that night was a fiasco and Karen ended up eating animal crackers (yes, really). But that meal raised her spirits. And along with seemingly getting stronger each day, Karen had hope at the end.
Thanks to all the folks who visited her or called over the past few months--and the past four years for that matter. And if you didn't have the opportunity to see or talk to Karen, I thank you for your prayers for her and for just being a part of her life. Karen was, as we are fond of saying, a force of nature. Bottom line, she was Karen and we loved her for it.
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William Kittilstad posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
Towards the end, we were reminded of Karen's funny sense of humor which she kept until the end. One day while I was at Reston Hospital, sister Chris, along with her nurse, doctor were trying to elicit some answers, including who to call/primary contact/s. Karen was in pain/medicated and very out of it/loopy, so Chris raised the volume with "Who are you going to call, who are you going to call, who are you going to call" in quick succession, at which point Karen rose up a bit in her bed, opened her eyes, and responded with an unforgettable "Ghostbusters". I will miss her humor.
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Pam Bessler Phillips posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
We never know how quickly life can change... Karen, my dear friend, I am shocked to know of your stroke and your passing so quickly. My heart goes out to your family. I will always remember your talent, your kindness and your smiles. I will miss you at our next reunion... you will be remembered. Rest in peace my dear friend.
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Christy Carr posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
Karen, my sweet fellow Libra, you will be missed terribly. I'm sad we lost touch over the years but I will hold our Grubb & Ellis memories fondly. Our talks, our giggles, even us butting heads, you were a joy to work with and to know. xoxo
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Nancy Holland posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
My dear, sweet Karen; my friend for 44 years, how I will miss you. Our lives spent together and apart in different permutations of closeness, but always there for each other over the decades. We've shared adventures and misadventures galore, joy and fun, sadness and grief, laughter and love. I pray for comfort and solace for your family and friends as we mourn your passing from this world. Tears and smiles, all for you...
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Cheri Martin posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
RIP KK! I'll forever keep you in my memories. Our talks about your Dad and me being the Philadelphia Eagles #1 and #2 biggest fans. Most importantly, thanks to you for hiring me in my first full time, permanent job @ Grubb. May GOD rest your soul and comfort and keep your family. Cheri Martin
Adams-Green Funeral Home & Crematory
721 Elden Street | Herndon, VA 20170
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